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post #1 of 20 Old 04-09-2012, 08:47 PM Thread Starter
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Well thats a crappy way to start my day

Hey everyone... Didn't know where else to turn so I am posting here.. I am having not that great of a day and was hoping for maybe some advice and maybe reassurance.

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I've been chatting with this girl I met a few years back on my trip to Korea, since we've kept in touch more or less but more recently. So I sent her a birthday card and a gift card since she lives in VA and I live in CA. I've gotten to like her a lot but now I don't know so much. Anyway here is what happened.


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So thats what happened...

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post #2 of 20 Old 04-09-2012, 09:15 PM
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I see what she did. I've teased like that over texting. Don't take it to heart. When you are trying to build a relationship try to talk over the phone. So that way you won't have the misunderstanding like you did with the text. Talking on the phone doesn't always work for the best, but it's better than text. I'm hoping she was teasing (it seems like she is/was). If she wasn't then you'd be better off with out her. Good luck!

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Interesting. Not sure how you would take that, kind of strange to say, joking or not.



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Relationships suck sometimes. I know. I just got over a rough breakup, and obviously that has nothing to do with whats going on here, but you just gotta stay positive and look on the bright side. After all, the girl I was with (and almost proposed to) hated topgear, disliked my car, and didn't like my friends. My new girlfriend loves my friends, loves my car (and tuning in general), and shes sorta into topgear. So sometimes something that seems really bad can turn out really well. Idk if this helps or not, but I hope it does.

Also, its like they said^^its easy to take things the wrong way when its over a text, dont look too far into it.

And their girls, so waaaaaaay smarter than me. hahaha

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Hey thanks guys I'll muscle through it. It just felt like that the text was meant for a girlfriend and she accidentally sent it to me just saying.

I think I will be optomistic and take her apology and patch things up. Thanks agian.

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it did sound a little out of context.

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Hey thanks guys I'll muscle through it. It just felt like that the text was meant for a girlfriend and she accidentally sent it to me just saying.

I think I will be optomistic and take her apology and patch things up. Thanks agian.
Welcome! I can see how you would think she meant it for a girl friend. Hang in there, long distance relationships are hard.

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Thanks ^^ ill let you know what happens next

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Im guessing she was expecting more than $10?

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Long distance relationships can be extremely hard. I know first hand. Me and my wife were good friends for almost 5 years first. She lived in the philippines. When we decided to finally put things together the time, desire, and distance can really wear on you. I agree talk by phone as much as possible. Txt's can come across cold, where a phone conversation you can hear the voice inflection and the sincerity. If you ever have any questions or just need a sounding board let me know.Take care and stay strong and try to think positive.

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